Andrew J. Lederer

someone I spent a lot of time with over the last months doesn't really tell me anything anymore.

Admittedly, I am now geographically distant but I would still be interested in hearing about things I know are meaningful to her. I don't think that should stop just because I no longer need the information to figure out when we can get together.

Makes me think my primary appeal was merely being around. I'm away and so I don't matter.

I'm not there, so I don't, in some sense, exist.