Andrew J. Lederer

Post details: I am disturbed by the fact that

03/12/08

I am disturbed by the fact that

10:11:19 pm, Categories: News, Volume Two

someone I spent a lot of time with over the last months doesn't really tell me anything anymore.

Admittedly, I am now geographically distant but I would still be interested in hearing about things I know are meaningful to her. I don't think that should stop just because I no longer need the information to figure out when we can get together.

Makes me think my primary appeal was merely being around. I'm away and so I don't matter.

I'm not there, so I don't, in some sense, exist.

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Comment from: Emu [Visitor]

she don't think, therefore you don't exist.

Permalink 03/12/08 @ 22:52

Comment from: David [Visitor]

Is it possible that you've been coming on a bit strong regarding your desire for contact with this person and it's having the opposite effect? If that is the case isn't this post going to put further distance between you?

Permalink 03/12/08 @ 23:25

Comment from: Jillian Shanebrook [Visitor]

Hi Andrew!

It's Jillian Shanebrook (from the old Blah Blah days) I have been checking in with your blog to see what you have been
up to and you always make me laugh! It sounds like you have
been up to lots of adventures!

Lots of love,
Jillian :-)

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